Saturday 12 January 2013

"friend"...Shit Happens...

Ook people...I am back to blog...topic is not friendship,...the word "friend" only. "Friend "is the most common word among youngsters..That is my friend....we are friends....they are my friend....just friend....mutual friend...best friend and blah blah...overall the word "friend" is like shit...we can see it everywhere if we want....and  .."shit happens". Look at daily life....we meet someone...we talked for less than a hour and boom!...we are friends...random people drink together....and they are friends...it is a different thing that they may not know each other when they get back to their normal state.We unknowingly message someone...someone replies...we reply back...and ..zoom!...we are Friends!!..X:. "Hey..that guy,....he is my friend..."Y:"O..you know him?...i think he needs help...."X: "Aah...actually we are not that close...we just meet once"...and we escape the situation...which is very normal thing now a days...We can hear the following line often.."if you get in trouble...i dont know you" and you can actually expect that from your friends....Yeah!...shit happens.I think Need is cause of  the word Friend now a days...I need something from you....i go to you...show you how good friends we are...after my work is done...I am invisible men...you do the same someone too...so it is a mutual understanding.If some friend calls me after long time i assume that he/she needs something from me...and i am never wrong.We dont take a beggar as a friend..do we?..because he always have needs...and cant even help us in return. The word Friend is like licence...we can use it to fulfill our needs...do business...have fun....So it is needed...for every shit.We love to make influential and powerful friends....we can run all our life if we have to to keep that friendship.X:"hey do you remember me?...i am your friend"...Rich and powerful person(R&PP): "i dont remember you....". X:" i stopped a fly from felling in your food.....you said thanks...remember ?" ..."Hey that guy over there...the one with the rolex...is my friend....he said hi to me in the airport 8 years ago.."... "Shit!!!!"No matter how short is the contact...a R&PP is always our friend..even if they are not our friend...they are our friend...and we always run after them because we know that they are the friends with benefits ..i have seen live example of literally running.But,...."Hey...isn't that...the one who is in the news for murder..is your friend..".then we say.."naaaaaah....he just said hi once....we were never friends.".And one most common word..."best friend"..or "bf"...which is as cheap as blue film now a days....."my best friends"....do you even know what best friend means?..But i am glad that some people actually knows...but still most are made for get used only." Friend word is a great weapon for girls....this way they can keep many options for them...when they needs something...guys who are capable to help are their best friends....they can almost cry in their shoulder to get their job done.If they see someone getting serious...and they have better options Or if anyone asks....they just say.."O..him?...he is "just friend"....Just friend?...wtf?....Just friend" is used by girls more than anyone.Girls call you(any guy) "friend"...try to release her tension on you...and her boyfriend is busy earning money for her without the tension he should share.so...yeah...Shit happens. .This does not means that guys are mineral water...they are no less...they just normally does that with guys.So lets meet people..shake hands and be friends....the word Friend was created for us only...we dont need "why"...as long as we can use it for our greater benefit. The word Friend is for sale now...like the words Love....honesty etc...It is a good thing that real friendship still exists among animals...but the hell with that..we are not animals.So get ready and make friends and have fun....because when one go away another one comes..world is a sea and there are plenty of fish..and of course this will continue till we die alone..at least before we die...we will realize...:shit happened...now it is too late.Friendship has become friendshit slowly..and we cant do anything about it...
Note: Don't follow what I wrote if you have a little respect for friendship left within you.....I see this situations everyday....and i know i stopped feeling bad about it....

Tuesday 1 January 2013

2013...So what ?..

2013 has come....if i review my loss and gain...i have gained much...lose less.Lots of positive things last year...few negative things with positive results some of which will come later.What will be my new years resolution ? well....funny thing is..most common resolutions are leaving smoking...drinking...etc etc.Mine is none of them...I will continue to my goal that i decided in 2009 with few decisions i made in past.I decided to be positive..and be respectful towards others feelings...be sincere and honest.In most part i have succeed...in some areas situations never let me.I was never selfish....but now i will try to be a little selfish because every one is selfish and no one cares but my family if i live or die...this is the truth for everyone...don't wait to realize it till it is too late.People may think that I am being negative..but knowing the truth then be positive is the best option....or we may get hurt.In 2012,according to mayans...the world ends.Maybe the meant something else...not literally this world.In my case one of my world had ended.A side of my life is permanently closed today....which of course breaks my heart because this means my permanent cut-off from a side of life.I will always trust universe..because what is happening..is for something good only...just i don't see it right now.2013....my life changes this year....and i know i did not left anything which let me realize it is too late.I did everything i could...being honest and sincere...so no regrets.One question always remains..."why this has to be always me?" ....but i guess i will get the answer sooner or later...till then,be myself...and be awesome.