Title of the post says it all.....most relationships degrades just because of mood...and we realize and regret it later. Here comes my experience...I had one good friend.....one day i had a really bad mood...and i was walking with one of my friends...that friend was talking to her on phone...she wanted to talk to me...with my bad mood...i said that i don't want to talk..It was rude ..and she heard that.Within that 5-9 seconds of time our friendship degraded.It was a long time ago...around 6 years has passed since...she is still my friend...but i could not restore the friendship i had with her before that 8-9 seconds..no matter how hard i tried.Same thing happened again this year..but this time i am the one who got victimized...and i understood the exact feeling my friend might have faced 6 years ago...again.
Some feelings are very strong....but they have some serious weak points...and we sometime unknowingly hit that weak point. Once got hit...those feelings breaks like glass no matter how strong the relationship is...and we may join the pieces...but they will never be the same again. Since when i lost that friendship i have become very careful while talking to people...specially when i am in a bad mood. But it is not easy to control and stop your negative energy which is originated in your bad mood from coming out of your mouth or behaviour.It is better not interact with anyone while in a bad or irritated mod...or we may end up breaking something precious.
So...mood can be changed...but sometime relationships can't.....So why give energy to mood ? :)
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