Love to relationship....a long way...

Valentines day....a day that reminds us the word "Love"....Where did it go?..yeah the feeling..the honesty...the sincerity?..."Love is a game in which one always cheats." said by Honore de Balzac. But Saint Augustine said that Love is the beauty of the soul. Now a days... Love is hanging between good and bad...it seems like Love is confused...we are confused.I am not going through the history of  saint valentine...but as we are here...we mostly recognize 14th Feb. as a day of love...were people shows love by money....if we cant bring anything nice to someone we love...how can we celebrate v-day? ..thats the basic concept today.When i travel..i see lots of couples...full of love(?)...i see break-ups...huge fights...bad endings as well.I see that lust is taking over Love's home...where things rarely go well...somewhere somehow..someone gets hurt.There are good people who truly believe is love...but many of them end up questioning"why" their love has failed?....if we look around closely....there is very few constant relationships.This happens because people decides a relationship on the basis of  attraction or infatuation..which the mistake as love..because it feels good. Love does not come just like this...love gradually happens. Cheating in love is not a crime in law...so many people are not afraid of this.I see girls n guys cheating their girlfriend/boyfriends everyday....they dont even feel bad later. Back to v-day....what happens in this day ?... some common answers are " we are going out somewhere special"...."I am buying something special for her" ...if someone asks me i can do that any day..why v-day? ....is that proof of love if we do there things on v-day ? Today valentine day exist on a piece of chocolate...or a good restaurant..or a expensive gift. sharing of true feelings is replaced by sharing of money and pleasure which is obviously not spiritual.people always keep options in love(?)..on the basis of  job...wealth or look.I have been to many places...meet many people,now a days....most guys and girls are not ready for a real relationship...,Pleasure is the only feeling the want more than anything in a relationship...and i am not talking about pleasure of mind.Guys decide from a girl's look...how she dresses...which is a wrong thing,girls falls for sweet words or instant charm..Till now almost all guys i have meet told me that they dont want to be serious with one girl..first they want to enjoy...other things comes later..if they come..probably girls thinks the same way..or probably the don't...But one commonly used line guys now a days is " there are plenty of fish in the water...don't worry"...as if having a true relationship is a profession like fishing...on the other hand girls uses"all men are dogs.." ..is if they knows all of them.Many grows up watching movies..expecting love will happen in filmy way....if not they will approach in filmy way....surprisingly this idea from idiot box works sometime...and people makes fool of themselves.
 So all these roadblocks are there in between love to a true relationship...What i wrote are not from my imagination....they are actual story,actual lines i have heard from people...and basically most are negative.In this case,what should one person do if he truly loves or wants to love someone and have a permanent relationship? If someone already loves with trust someone...he/she should be faithful...if the other person does not care...someday,someone will eventually come who actually cares...and for those who wants true love...,stop looking,stop searching...just have faith.
Just remember Murphy's Law : Nice guys(girls) finish last....(I think he was being diplomatic...) but be positive.
                                                                     Cheers  :)