we and our mask..

So...back to blog....could not say away for long...just because some negative events..Anyway, So we and our mask is the bubble of thought that occurred to me today while thinking about some people. This is the thing...people don't really change,the just upgrade themselves,hides their real self or shows their real self ,and we think.."hey..he/she has changed"...we actually never did know that person.I understand people...at least some people.I am came in touch with one person...who is actually "good" ...but that person created a mask of a different person to hide the real self, that mask can protect that person from many negative things...but can't protect from own self.I closely observed that person....and the eyes tells a different story. A very soft and kind hearted person when acts tough,dont caring just because the society is negative in some matters...that person becomes someone who ignores many things,even some good things that are in the doorstep. First i thought that that person is rude and heartless....I knew that i was wrong when i saw the eyes. A mask...thats all..A person, who loves to study,write and spend time with pets when dresses different , mixes up with friends not trying to know if that is really a friend or not and goes to places where we temporarily loss ourselves is a sign of the load of a mask which needs a relief sometime. A person who never shows that he/she cries and think nothing is actually someone who should not wear a mask.But world is cruel,some incidents are like this that makes us freeze some of our own self. I have seen people who acts,..i mean literally acts as a different person...just to show that they are able to survive the society.Today we act...tomorrow we act...but what about the day when the masks becomes too heavy to bear ? I guess we don't think about this things much...we just think if we have enough money in future or not. But I feel bad about seeing good people turning into masks and too afraid to come out of it...but thats the way it has to be...they think...and they don't want to change that until it is too late. We never loose ourselves...anything that is true about us,in us...it can be our own self....true love...true friendship...anything.Putting temporary wall between our true self and a mask is not worth anything...be positive...and let the good come :)