L❤ve...first or true ?

         I saw this post in fb...."first love never dies...but true love can bury it alive...".

I always knew the truth of that post..but I never had the right words to tell that..I have seen seen some people who are too much attached with the feeling for first love..specially when it got away.Loosing first love hurts a lot...i know the feeling...but there is no point to carry that sorrow.Be positive about what happened...you are lucky that you lost your first love early which is going to go away anyway..(This is for those who had lost their first love..and still thinking about that lost..)....and you are saved from getting hurt more(more the duration...more the attachment)..

[.Note: this blog is about being positive....I will take out the positive from the negative...so I am going to bring negative things from reality...which we can't ignore..and should not get affected from them either..]

  Our Heart is like a men-eater tiger or a drunkard...once it tests LOVE...it desires it till we die...and it desires more love,more than ever when it looses first love....and believe me i will NOT suggest you to experience that feeling of desire..because it contains all the dangerous negative emotions..like frustration.,anger,very heavy heart...and many more....I came know from some people that desire for death is also included there sometime...DAMN!...(Desire for death....another topic to discuss..maybe some other day..)...Let me tell you one thing...your first love is NOT some girl or guy from outside..you just think that,that is your first love...in reality..our first love is our family...because we love our family..specially mom and dad long before we meet that "first love" of ours..So don't be blind...find the true love around you...If you find someone who accepts you for what you are,...he/she will be the real FIRST LOVE after your family for you....not the one who left you...and you still think her/him of your first love..you can compare that experience with a rent house  ...but you are yet to buy your FIRST own house.i like this line said by Dale Carnegie: "Feeling sorry for yourself, and your present condition, is not only a waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have."True Love does not has to be the first love...I KNOW it is NOT always necessary...I even say most of the time first love is never true love.Most teenagers fall is love(?)....how many of them lasts long?When we grow adult..we slowly understand love, and when we fall in love in this age...and when the love is true,we usually never giver up on that love.If you are a teenager...don't be so hard on yourself about first love...In most cases,first love...until we understand true love.
  Love is such a beautiful thing that it will give you heaven on earth...and of course you can also show you the hell on earth..I know what both feels...I always try to ignore the negative feelings...and keep the positive results.

  So lets end this post with the same line with one word in addition...

               "first love never dies...but first true love can bury it alive...".