We are slaves....my way of breaking that habit...

  We definitely don't like slavery.....Do we ? We don't always like to take orders from others...what if i tell you that most of us are slaves....We are saves of our minds....our mind and emotions controls us most of the time.One of my teachers said...brain doesn't have a brain...so we have tell it which way to think.
   Sometime we are stuck in something that our mind believes....and we don't want to get out of that belief.We think other than that thought everything is impossible..Edison would have given up on his light bulb if he let his brain decide what to do...".

    "Thats not possible...i know that"..Really?....i have seen many people who realized later and told me.."damn...i thought it was impossible"...Once my dad used to say to me" you are imagining too much...you will never made it out there.."... Now my dad says"I never thought could do it."..when it comes to my line of work..So we don't really know...do we? We just think we know...and don't care what other thinks or know.It is possible that you are not seeing something that someone else sees about you...I always listen to others opinion about me...this way i can correct my beliefs.My teacher's influence on me makes me bring his concept...he told us(i am not using exact words..but the meaning is same)"whats negative in our minds, like we can't...not possible...etc. are just something we believe...but the outside world is not like that.We will never know what we can't do or what is not possible until we go out there and try it.I have loads of example around me...A thinks that he will never stop thinking about his ex...B thinks he is very unlucky....C thinks nothing good is going to happen in her department....D thinks this relationship is impossible...E thinks she can't be positive every time....F thinks he is a failure and he will never get success....thinks... thinks... thinks....every-one only thinks...and they also thinks that what they think is true and they think they know that..Every thinking i mentioned above are really happening in real life with real people i know...and there are lots of other A,B,C,D,E,F are out there..I think thats why great people told us to follow our heart...one awesome Indian film 3 Idiots and a Hollywood film October sky made my belief very strong on that...I still watch this two films when i feel down on achieving something and remind this meaning of one dialogue from 3 Idiots "follow your heart..if you don't want to regret one day...if heart is afraid...say All is Well..." This is true in goal...love ..everything. I myself said to my heart number of times "all is well"(Not the exact lines...but meaning is the same) when i felt down on some serious situation going on in my life.In case of the negative feelings about ourselves (exclude me....i don't belong that club anymore...)..i guess most of that feeling comes from our pasts,..i can tell...bad days comes to our life to make us realize the value of good time.Failure in love comes to realize the value of love and the intensity of pain so that we can understand other's love and pain.Failure is exam comes with the feeling of failures so that we don't disrespect them just because they are failures without knowing the proper reason behind....and so on.The people who are concern about us,usually irritates us with their concern...irritation is in our mind..so usually we get angry on them because mind is telling us that.If only once we feel from heart we will see their love for us and never feel irritated.I usually trust my heart....and use my mind with as well...but i never let my mind control me.I always think that "what if i am wrong..? " when any negative feeling influences my mind..Just because i think like that ,i am still working on something which i might have left long time ago...which i thought of leaving 5-6 times this year.
  It is not easy to let go of our thoughts and try something we think we can't...But "we can't "..."Thats Impossible"...are just today or i may say, at this very moment when they comes to your mind...Don't hold them off  for the future...because you will never know what they are stopping you from...
   Things don't just happens...they happens for a reason....we need think about the reason...From the experience of many people..i have learned that most of the things we are sure about are only in our minds..but in reality most of them are just some imaginary picture.It took me more than 6 years to find my line of work...and 8 years to set up my goal(i just realized that it took same time to find another Goal of mine). Today i  don't think the word impossible(i only think I-m-possible) for the things i want..i know. Somethings may appear impossible NOW...but i never know what the future holds if i give up.In case of my goals...I have came too  far to give up on them..so i am going to try again and again.
   Well...if you still think "thats not possible"...or you "can't do it"...then you are really in control of your mind...sometime thats necessary..but every  time you do that you may loose some good moment..or some good people forever.