Failure and success are one of those which doesn't
have a specific definition....What is success?....Is it passing the
exam...winning a game...get a promotion....winning a lottery?...what is
it ?.....Lets take some examples from the people i have seen in my
life...I saw one guy who wanted to fail in exam just because he did not
wanted to study that particular subject...that he took just because his
parents wanted him to...If he fails that is success for him(He did not
fail though...he was good i guess)..Some people wants to remain in their
post and always hopes that they don't get a promotion..because
promotion means more work..and less time for himself(I heard this from a
bank employee)....So the success you are getting right now in others
opinion may not be the success for yourself.One of my friends got high
rank in high school exam....later he got selected for medical
studies...and everyone thought that he is really lucky....but he said
that he never wanted to study medicine....he had to go for it because
his parents wanted that....i guess his parents wanted that because every
one they know had thought that studying medicine is the ultimate
success...Now he may have become a doc. today...but in his mind he had
failed to achieve his dreams.
Many great people were failure in their past life....some in
education..some in relationships and some in love...some in
everywhere.But lets not compare ourselves with them..lets start with we,
the common people..I start with myself...I
am a failure...I've experienced failure everywhere(except family relationships)...and i admit it.I know that all the
failure i had are building the base of my ultimate success...but thats me.
I knew someone who used to be very successful..he never failed..never
got low marks..but the habit of success can be dangerous sometime..That
person was very close to me...he had high dreams... his dreams also
influenced me somehow to remain in the right track that i am in now.One
day he failed in an important exam..which he never experienced before,he
parents probably said things that were inappropriate for his mental
situation at that time..But parents,they don't say that kind of things
with something similar in their heart..they want us to realize that we
don''t need these things...so we need to be good.I am writing with a
heavy heart that he committed suicide :'( ..and
i lost one of the very few people i want in my life.One guy i know had
failed in love...and has become a regular alcoholic ...just to stay
strong.Parents of one person i know had failed to understand their
son...which made him a drug addict...There are lots of examples of
failure around us....and almost 90-98% of them are NOT directly related
to money or education...but effects some people severely.
There are people who loves us unconditionally(besides our family)...but most of the time we fail to understand their depth and sincerity towards love for us..(hey its not their fault..we can't plan love..it happens)..only because most of us only cares about what we like..what we think...this
happens mostly in love matters...we who don't understand are failure here. I hope i don't
belong to this group of failures..and never will....because this hurts
some sincere and honest heart really bad...and even may make them
insensitive or negative sometime.Unfortunately i have seen this type of examples of
pain too....one of my friend is among the victims..and he has slowly
becoming insensitive towards a group of humans..no matter how good some
of them are..
What do i think?...i think that the only failure we experience,exist
only in our minds...but the mind is the only thing which makes us
human..so whats in our mind is in our lives too.Make failures the bricks of the pillar of success not brakes towards success.Keep
moving until you get to hold of the hand of success...i know we
will..lets use our failure as an experience for success.When i failed an
exam once...i never cared , that failure has become one of the pillars
of my success till now...otherwise i might be working on something i
don't like,bumping my head and thinking why did not i fail when i had
the chance.I failed in another thing(sorry..too personal to specify
right now)...and got sad...Today i know that failure has made me not
only very strong but also brought me close to the perfect moment for
that thing.
I write what i think..feel...none of these are creative result of my
mind...only experiences from my life.One reason to share these...spread positivity. So be positive people....because being positive is NOT the writing from some book...it is the reason behind GOOD
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