Friendship day.....is it still a honor..?.

   "Friend"...a most commonly used word in the world....I am going to share my feelings for this topic today...It may or may not match your feelings..but everything is based on truth...

   I used to care a lot about my friends...I always gave priority to my friends....and the result today is none of them cared to keep in touch...I can tell myself"maybe they are too busy with their life.." but Instead ,i think they never understood the depth of friendship..those feelings had to die to teach me this important lesson about friendship..:- "Friendship doesn't mean friendship to many people now a days"...and its not just me..I still have the highest respect for friendship and love...but today i am very selective..because most of my feelings died....because i am afraid to get hurt again and again...you decide if that is my fault or not..

    We honor the memory of the good people who are dead....We honor friendship.... In this particular day...today, we remember our friends....What happened to the other 364 days ?

    You may think i am being negative about friendship....but accept the truth....is everyone wants to become your friend with the feeling"friendship"in their heart?....In my experience...NO...

 today there are reasons to make friends....like exchange things....possibility of profit from each others..etc etc...How many friends do you have who will tell you"no worries...i am with you.." unconditionally..? People used to celebrate this day to add one more awesome day to their friendship...now most people celebrate to remind friendship still exist...
  There are a few who has "unconditional friendship" feeling in their heart...A few will follow the follwing from heart :

  "I keep my friends as misers do their treasure, because, of all the things granted us by wisdom, none is greater or better than friendship."      - Pietro Aretino (1537) 

I truly believe what Pietro Aretino said long time age..and there are many who does too..But today when you offer friendship..people normally thinks 2 things by default..."whats is his/her motive?..and..."can he/she be a trusted?" ....why this negative feeing? Its not their fault..it is the world...and its increasing negativity.There are people who has a very friendly heart but with less friends..Why? Some of them are afraid to get hurt in friendship..some of them are already hurt..

 Friendship is dying...unless we save it with true friendship...or else one day we will celebrate this day for the memory of Friendship.Today people use the line "no time" and "everyone is busy with their own life" often..for an excuse when it comes to keep in touch with friends..don't you think that friends are part of your "own life"?...if no...I say you are among those who never respected friendship.For me friendship and love is an honor..which are way above my life...I know y'all think i am writing too much...thats because friendship has almost no value among us.I feel bad..for all those people who deserves sincere love and friendship...for those who are getting hurt just because they are honest and sincere towards friendship or love..the old me was one of them too..so i know how it feels.

     So...respect friendship....and respect those who respects friendship...no matter who they are friends with."No time"..."not possible" etc.are just something that are stuck in our brain..something WE think...thats not what the reality is .If you want your friends from heart...no matter where they are..what they are, you are always with them...same goes to love because love is part of friendship and life...Many People Give you Crying Tears And Laughing Smiles...But There Are Few People,......Who Give you..Laughing Tears And Crying Smiles Those Very Few Called FRIENDS..so forgot the commonly used line"No one cares"and start caring because there are people who truly cares about friendship..

 There are lot to write....but lets do that another time....Ending this post with of my personal fav quote...

         "Can miles truly separate you from friends... If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?"~Richard Bach